Comments & Praise

Communicate on tasks, recognize achievements, and build positive reinforcement

Task Comments

Comments allow communication directly on tasks, creating a focused discussion thread for each task.

Adding a Comment

  1. Open the Task
    Navigate to the task you want to comment on.
  2. Find the Comments Section
    Scroll down to see existing comments and the comment input.
  3. Write Your Comment
    Type your message in the comment box.
  4. Post
    Click "Post" or press Enter to submit your comment.

Comment Features

Use Cases for Comments

Praise

Praise is a special form of recognition that goes beyond regular comments. It's designed to provide positive reinforcement and acknowledge good behavior or performance.

✓ The Power of Praise
Research shows that positive reinforcement is more effective than punishment for building desired behaviors. Regular praise strengthens your dynamic and motivates continued effort.

Giving Praise

  1. On a Completed Task
    When reviewing a completed task, click the "Give Praise" button.
  2. Quick Praise
    Use the quick praise option on The Helm to send praise directly.
  3. Write Your Message
    Add a personalized message explaining what you're praising.
  4. Select a Praise Type (Optional)
    Choose a category like "Good Service", "Excellent Obedience", "Great Progress", etc.
  5. Send
    Submit the praise. The recipient will be notified.

Praise Types

Categorize praise to track patterns:

The Praise Wall

The Praise Wall is a special section on The Helm dashboard that displays recent praise:

For Submissives

For Dominants

Praise Statistics

Track praise over time:

Quick Praise from The Helm

Dominants can send quick praise directly from The Helm without opening a task:

  1. Find the submissive's card on your dashboard
  2. Click the "Quick Praise" or thumbs-up button
  3. Select a praise type or write a custom message
  4. Send immediately

Comment & Praise Notifications

Comment Notifications

Praise Notifications

Configure notification preferences in Account Settings → Notifications.

Best Practices

For Giving Praise

Be Specific

Instead of "Good job", say "I'm impressed by how quickly you completed the laundry and how neatly everything was folded."

Be Timely

Give praise soon after the behavior you want to reinforce. Immediate recognition is most effective.

Be Consistent

Regular praise builds trust and motivation. Don't save it only for perfect performance.

Be Genuine

Authentic praise resonates more than generic recognition. Mean what you say.

For Receiving Praise

Accept Gracefully

Accept praise without deflecting. A simple "Thank you, Sir/Ma'am" is appropriate.

Let It Motivate

Use praise as fuel for continued effort. Review your Praise Wall when you need encouragement.

Note Patterns

Notice what behaviors earn praise and continue those patterns.

Comment Etiquette

Keep It Relevant

Keep comments focused on the task at hand. Use direct messages for off-topic conversation.

Be Respectful

Maintain the tone appropriate to your dynamic, even when giving corrective feedback.

Use for Documentation

Comments create a record. Use them to document important information that should be remembered.

Reporting Issues

If you receive inappropriate comments or see content that violates community guidelines:

  1. Click the three-dot menu on the comment
  2. Select "Report"
  3. Choose the reason for reporting
  4. Submit the report

Reports are reviewed by moderators and appropriate action is taken.